E in Nashville writes...

Greetings HogWild,

First off, kudos to your videos! Very informative yet entertaining.

I dated this girl awhile back, but knew she wasn't "the one" for me. I consider her more of a good friend. She's not batshit ugly or crazy, just not my type as far as getting into a serious relationship.

Well, last week I saw her with another guy and learned they may be getting serious.

Holy crap this made me sick to my stomach.

But I do not know why.

After all, I do not see her as "the one" for me and we don't have that spark together. So why the jealousy?

It makes no sense at all. I try my hardest to not think about it. It's not at all an angry/vengeful type of jealousy, but more like a sad jealousy.

But like I said, this shouldn't be since we are not a couple nor have we been in years; just casual friends. I am wondering what HogWild's thoughts would be on this.

- E in Nashville

She was your back-up relationship security blanket. And now she's gone. Sadness.

She was your ego-boner.

You don't mourn the loss of HER, you are mourning the loss of the POSSIBILITY of her. Your back-up plan. Your buddy-who-could-blow-you.

You've already determined she is not the one for you. Remind yourself that YOU turned her down. This is where you must stick to...

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- We often want what we can't have. And we take for granted what is made easy for us. It's how the human mind works.

- Please remind yourself that you...

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