M in Indianapolis writes...

Hey Hog,

Thanks again for the past advice. It was super helpful and we made a lot of progress.

Now I find myself in another situation. I am soon leaving to Europe for a month and while we are technically not dating, is it fair for me to tell her or ask her not to see anyone else?

The last thing I want is to come back home and discover her hooking up with someone and saying, "Your fault, you should have said something."

What should I do? What should I say?

Or am I just over-reacting and let whatever happens run its course?

- M in Indianapolis

You want to put this girl on lock-down!

Put her passion area in prison.

Her hooters in handcuffs.

Her booty in bondage.

You must have strong feelings for her since you are about to go on a trip where many guys would be excited about the possibilities of sampling, er, the local cuisines of exotic lands.

What would be beautifully perfect is if you officially became a couple before you leave.

Your fear is correct. Because she WOULD be within her rights to see other guys while you're gone... if you don't say anything!!!

It's natural for a girl to think, "Hmm... this guy I'm seeing is leaving for a month somewhere far away and fun... he's probably going to enjoy himself with other girls because he hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend."

If she thinks you're attractive and you're not a couple, she can fairly assume that you will attract girls while you're away and since you're not a couple, you will feel free to do as you please. So why shouldn’t she do the same?!

So... if you want to lock her down... SAY SOMETHING!

Of course you must say it right otherwise you will look jealous and clingy. So here is what to say to her...

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- Let her know that you won't be seeing other girls while you're away.

- If she doesn't want to be exclusive, then you can save yourself some embarrassment by saying...

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