Hola HogWild,

I love your show. You give great and funny advice. :)

My question is "does size really matter" and by that I mean weight of course. LOL.

What do guys really think about big girls? Is it more important than personality?

I am a curvy Latina and if I were a boy I wouldn't really think it's that big of a deal.

I honestly think it's more of a peer pressure subject, do you?

I think some guys are embarassed to show that they have feelings for someone big. Now I'm not a guy so I really have no idea what goes through guys' minds about big girls. I love myself the way I am as long as I'm healthy nothing else matters to me. I just wish guys would like my curves just the way I do, or is it simply a maturity problem?

Thank you and I love your videos. :)

- Veronica from KC

First of all, THANK YOU for your kind words. You made me feel good! It was like a virtual hug in your big soft bosomly bosom! haha

Now I've talked about the real deal if you're VERY fat but what if you're "regular" round?

How to know if you're VERY fat or regular fat...

Fat: You huff and puff a bit while walking

VERY Fat: You can't wear socks.

Fat: When you sit, you take up a bit more than one seat on the bus.

VERY Fat: The bus tips over.

Let me say this again because it's super important... if you are HAPPY this way... then stay round! It's your life so be who you want to be.

That said, if you are unhappy with your RESULTS... then it's time to make some changes.

I understand your pain. When you're a fat chick, sometimes it seems the only guys interested in you are the ones trying to sell you cotton candy.

But there ARE guys who are specifically attracted to bigger women. Find those guys. The internet is great for "narrowing it down." Heh heh, narrow. Sorry. :)

Or, find guys near you who are currently dating a bigger girl. Then break them up! Er, wait for them to break up!

Most men -- I don't care what they TELL you -- most men go for looks first, then personality. If a guy isn't attracted to your looks, he won't give you a chance. Unless he's super desperate for the "sombrero dance off."

That's Spanish.

Are some guys into bigger girls but embarrassed by it? Yes.

Some of their friends will tease them about being with a big girl. That's how it is. They will back off only if he stands up to them or he is super serious about you.

Just like you probably want a man who has educated himself, most men want a woman has fitnessed herself. Yes, I just made up that word. See how educated *I* am! hhahah

Girls, your looks will get your man. Your personality will KEEP him.

If you're happy with how you look, then stay that way! Find a man who is also into it. You will have to look harder is all.

Go where these guys might be. In certain online dating communities, at the buffet, at comic book conventions.

If you don't like any of those suggestions, then why not do the OBVIOUS. Yes, sometimes you need ME to pick up the obvious and wave it in front of your pretty face!

If you're round and happy, then you should flirt with...

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- I could be very happy with laying at the beach all day every day doing nothing except drinking orange soda mixed with vanilla ice cream and getting tan. But... I wouldn't get the results I wanted. I want to help people. I want to contribute to the world. You can't have both. You can't be round and squishy and ALSO expect all sorts of hot dudes attracted to you.

- It's not a "maturity" thing. Men are VERY into the visual. So it's important that you get a guy who is SUPER into how you look. If he's not then you risk...

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Comment below! Guys, would you date a bigger girl? Why or why not? Girls, would you date an uneducated guy? Why or why not?

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