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How to Be Independent (This Solves Many Relationship Problems)

by me, HogWild


So many of our problems in dating and relationships come because we have unresolved issues from childhood. And lots of people use their relationships to "fix" those problems. This is a huge mistake.

Girls, your boyfriend is not your dad. Guys, your girlfriend is not your mom.

CHEESY GUY: Right. MY girlfriend is YOUR mom.

Being independent means being able to stand on your own. Usually we think, financially. Or with decision-making. But what about emotionally?

How independent are you from old feelings from childhood?

Real freedom... Real independence comes when you CHOOSE the person you want to be instead of what situations molded you into.

This absolutely affects your relationships. Watch video #605: Shots Fired! Avoid Pulling your Relationship Partner's Triggers.

I'm coaching a girl who realized she pushed her boyfriend away from her because she was behaving as she was trained in childhood instead of how she really wanted to behave.

She loved her boyfriend but she also felt threatened by him.

CHEESY GUY: I have the same problem! I love myself but I also feel threatened by my good looks! When I look in the mirror, I get jealous of myself!

She was scared her boyfriend would control her. She was scared she would become too reliant on him.

When we looked at the facts though, this wasn't the case. She is very capable of living her own life and his behavior wasn't at all controlling. Some people ARE controlling, but he wasn't.

- he demands that you wear your hair with bangs, of exactly 3.5 centimeters!
- you may only pee twice a day
- he allows you to see whomever you want as long as they are on his pre-approved list and you wear the GPS tracking and remote camera device that he bought you for Christmas

christmas gift

hahah That was his Christmas gift to you. A device so he can track you! ahahaha :)

NOTE TO SELF: Stop laughing at your own jokes!

OTHER NOTE TO SELF: But I'm enjoying them!

So this girl was mimicking the relationship lessons she learned from her mom. Her mom has a distrust of all men. Her mom's father was an abusive alcoholic. Then he left the family. Then her mom's husband (her dad) left her mom alone with two babies. This girl's mom had good reasons to form this protective shield!


But the sad part is, while her mom's strength helped her raise a family on her own and gave her career success... she passed a paranoia down to her child. The girl I'm coaching, in a way, is living out her mom's life instead of her own.

GUY WHO SELLS MEAT FROM THE BACK OF HIS TRUCK: Hey, I sell meat from the back of my truck, and I'm doing things MY way. Seem my daddy wanted me to live out HIS dream of being an entrepreneur who sells cow DUNG. But I didn't want to be an entre-manure! So that's why I paved my own path on these highways to sell this here preeeeeeeeee-mium beef that I roll over in my truck!

Example 2...

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- True independence comes from within. CHOOSE to be the man or woman you want to be. Realize that who you are today may not necessarily be the best version of you. It's the version you've accepted.

- Some people say you're not independent if you live with your parents. But how many of us live with our parents in our heads?

How many of us live with those childhood bullies in our head? Here is how to stop those negative voices...

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