How to be Charming: Remember the Important Details

by me, HogWild

Being charming is all about making the other person feel good about themselves.

You know what makes a person feel good? When you tell them to lay down as you feed them chicken wings.

Or maybe that's just me. haha

A person feels good when they feel IMPORTANT.

An easy way to make someone feel important is to REMEMBER things about them.

When someone you've met a few times doesn't even remember your name, you feel very UNimportant to them. But what if they not only remembered your name, but your cat's name and your birthplace, and your favorite dessert, favorite musician, favorite pizza toppings and all your exciting stories!

YOU: And that's the detailed explanation of why I eat leafy green vegetables.

THEM: OK, I have to hand out oxygen tanks to everyone in this room. Because I'm about to suck out all the air with the world's biggest YAWN! Damn that was a boring story!

If you remember the details, the person thinks, "Wow, they MUST be interested in me as a person. They were actually LISTENING! Wow!"

So if you want to be charming and make yourself more attractive to someone -- make them feel special by remembering the important details.

Often you will hear them respond, "Wow! You have a good memory."

Then you say, "Not really. I only remember things about people I like."

And unless you have an amazing recollection, that will be true! Do you BOTHER to remember things about people you don't care for? Probably not.

See, you are putting in the EFFORT to remember and THAT shows you care.

What effort? The effort to take notes. And to commit it to your brain.

When you get home, or in your phone/mini-computer/hologram mind recorder device/ when they're not looking, write down the important details.

Is it creepy? Only if you're a creep! Otherwise it's flattering. I mean, it's slick if you don't let them know that you do that.

It's odd if you're carrying around a briefcase with their file and then you pull it out, "Ah, here we go! Rebecca Stankler. Your favorite sport is volleyball and you absolutely love peanut butter. You dislike pink cotton candy and sporks. OK, what other data do you have for me today?

No! Just remember the important things.

Here's an example of how to do this in real life...

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