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How to Get What I Want: Forget Goal Setting

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If you make finding love (or sex) a "goal" then you increase your odds of failure.

YOU: Huh? I thought goals were good!

They are!


Don't leave your values to reach that goal. Because you will often be miserable. A lot of times it's not about achieving the goal, it's about the new person you’ve become in the process.

NERD BOY: It's true. I once had a goal of winning the Math Team Championships and the greatest feeling didn’t come from hoisting that golden colored plastic trophy of Archimedes, or from wearing my new satin jacket with the words Math Team Champion emblazoned in yellow silk-screened iron-on letters across the back, nor was it my MVP award of a wristwatch where the time is always expressed as prime numbers -- no, the greatest feeling was becoming... kewl.

prime numbers

It's tempting to say, "My goal is to get in a relationship within 6 months. Or to sha-boink a beautiful woman this week." Or whatever it is you want. But then there's is the great temptation to compromise everything to reach the goal so you can say, I did it!

Sure, you reached your "relationship goal" but is it the RIGHT relationship? Or did you succumb to the pressure you put on yourself? Do you really find that girl beautiful or are you fooling yourself because you want to reach the finish line?

beautiful girl

There is another way to achieve what you want...

Concentrate on the process.

Do your best with EVERY interaction. Every day be the most awesome version of you. Every single day. And then put yourself in a position to succeed by meeting enough qualified people.

If you don't make progress towards your general idea (or goal, if you prefer that word) then here are the 2 things you need to do...

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- Try making your "goal" to constantly improve and to do your best with every interaction. This includes having the courage to have more interactions with women or men who meet your standards.

- To be clear, I think goals are great. If that works for you, then do it! But remember, goals are realized by the quality of your actions and decisions. You want to be a happy person and get the relationship you want? Then do this...

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