Commitment-Phobe Relationship Problems

by me, HogWild

If they can't commit, it's time quit!

Remember, if a saying is in a rhyme, it has stood the test of time! Like,

Don't commit the crime if you can't swallow the lime!

and...

Do unto others as you would have them do until you
So don't criticize an old woman until you have lived in her shoe!

Commitment can mean marriage but it can also be a monogamous relationship without marriage.

That decision is up to you. But if your partner is hesitant to commit after they really KNOW you -- after they’ve had enough time and conversations and closeness to KNOW you -- you need to move on.

Listen to me! In life, you'd best get what you want or want what you're getting!!!

You know something is true if the person is shouting!!! haha

Women, this is not a license to pressure men into marriage! In fact, no one should pressure anyone into anything! Because your partner will feel like you've tricked them or stolen something from them. They have to WANT it. They have to be ready.

Some people are hesitant to marry but ready to be monogamous. If you're good with that, accept that and be happy. If you require marriage, ask yourself why this is so important to you. If your answer is "because that's how it's done" then you haven't thought enough about it.

If you have good REASONS, then great! Then you can require marriage. You should feel like it's going in that direction.

I know a couple that was together for 10 years before marriage. But you know what, it was obvious they had a strong love and they were faithful to each other. And it worked for them. Now they've been married for 4 years and they have a child together.

There are other couples that are together for 5 years and its obvious to outsiders that it's not going to happen because their lives seem to be growing apart.

For others, commitment means a promise to make a family together. Everyone has their own definition of commitment. The idea is that you and your partner should agree on it. If you don't, then keep it moving.

Don't waste years of your life with someone who can't, won't or is unable to love you in the way you like.

Now, if you're impossible to please -- that's on you. Look within yourself to know if you're being difficult or reasonable.

Whoa. It would be cool if we really COULD look within ourselves! See-through skin would be neat-o! Then you'd REALLY know when someone is FULL OF SHIT!

Ewww!

If you're a woman who REALLY wants a family and the guy you're with is not all about that -- what the hell are you doing?

THE GIRL: I think one of these years he'll see it my way. ..... And I've been poking little holes in his condoms.

You don't have the same values! It doesn't make the guy a bad dude, it makes you INSANE for being with someone who is incompatible with you!

I would say the same to that dude. Hey man, if you really value being carefree and without the responsibility of raising a family, why are you with a woman who will always be unhappy that you won't give her what she wants?

HIM: Steady nookie, dude. ...And I keep a stash of decoy condoms for her to poke holes in. I had a vasectomy 10 years ago.

Know what you want. Get what you want. Or...

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