How to be Charming: Being Positive

by me, HogWild

In video 686 we talked about How to be Charming to make yourself more attractive. The last technique I mentioned was to be positive.

YOU: Being positive sucks! I like being sarcastic and jaded! Yeah, I really do. Wait, was THAT sarcastic? I don't even know anymore!

You CAN be sarcastic and funny that way but this is about how to be charming. A key component of being charming is to find something positive to make this other person feel good about themselves.

Make them feel GREAT until they want to sing like a bird on a branch that just fell in love with another bird on a branch and they go on a romantic date together in the park for a free all-you-can-eat buffet of bread tossed by old people! Woo-hoo! Free lunch from old people!

Birds, are so lucky. If I wanted free lunch from old people, I'd had to spend all afternoon with them listening to their stories! Birds get the lunch then they fly away! I wish I could be a bird.

OLD PERSON: Here's some free pizza. Now let me tell you about my various aches and pains.

ME: Sorry! I've got to fly away to do important bird stuff! But first I'll walk around to look at random things and flap my wings around! Thanks again for the pizza even though you didn’t offer me a drink! It's cool though, I'll just drink out of a puddle.

When you make someone feel good about themselves -- when you make them see their situation in a new way -- you can really change their mood! You can change their outlook! Wouldn't you like a person who helped you see the best of your situation?

Heck yeah! You're right! I don't have weird elbows! They've got... character.

With so many criticizers and doubters out there, you can rise above by being the optimistic person.

For instance:

UNHAPPY HER: Yeah, I work at cosmetic section of a department store.

YOU: You don't sound too thrilled about it, but you know what, you're helping women look their best and feel their best. So I think that's actually really cool of you. I mean, maybe it's not your dream job and you won't be there forever but it's still cool that you get do something good for people.

or

HIM: Yeah, I'm in a band. I mean, we just do small gigs in some bars around town.

HER: That's awesome! That sounds like fun! It must be a rush to get up there to perform!

or...

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