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Dating Advice: My boyfriend talks about our future but I feel like I'm being put on hold.

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Hey Hog!

I've been in an on and off relationship with a guy for almost 2 years now. It's a long distance relationship and we don't see each other a whole lot, but we make the best of the time we have together.

We want to eventually move in together, and we made plans for our future once we have our careers nicely started up. I love him, but there are some things that just don't sit right with me:

1 - He barely ever comes over, I'm usually the one that drives to his place, and it's hard for me because I'm still a student.

2 - He started touring a lot (no time for visits anymore)

3 - He has A LOT of groupies and I'm worried that while on tour he'll succumb to the temptation of doing other chicks.

4 - He decided on his own to move even further to where his new band lives.

He says he cares and he wants to be with me, but sometimes it feels like I don't even exist. He always talks about the future, but I feel like I'm being put on hold. Should I wait for that future or just let him go?

Thank you! Your dating advice is always so helpful and funny! :)

- L in Montreal

You ARE being put on hold. The question is... is that OK?

Does he rock out with songs such as...

Baby, I want to be with you!...
Just not right now!
Baby, I want to snuggle and cuddle...
Later. Much, much later.
Baby, I want to get lost in your eyes...
When I get around to it.

You must understand that his music career is his baby. A man cannot give birth so to a guy with a PASSION... this is his baby. His creation. He nurtures it. It is his legacy. Respect it like it is his baby.

This is not an exaggeration. Not all men have a passion. But if yours does, it brings excitement to your relationship and it also requires patience and understanding.

HIS PASSION: Waaa! I need attention!

YOU: Aw, it's OK. Come here. I love you little baby as if you were my own! I will nurture you and one day you will be big and strong!


YOU: Now that's just inconsiderate. I know you're a baby and all but what did you eat today? Mushed string beans and TACOS?!

See, a man's baby can be temperamental and sometimes even rude. Sooooo....

Your guy MUST do more to show his love for you.

A lot of guys who are chasing their dream hold off on ANY relationship because they know they can't dedicate the proper time and energy to it.

BREAKING NEWS: This just in... you don't get great at your art by doing it half-assed. It requires complete dedication and focus which often leads to failed relationships, ignorance of current events, and slicing off your ear and giving it to a prostitute. This has been a special report.

Your guy is struggling to find the right balance. Think carefully... do you believe in this man? Is he "the one." If you don't think so, then get out now. It's not worth it.

If he IS "the one"... then you need to...

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- You need to show him all your awesomeness and positive qualities and loving behaviors and THEN... tell him that you need him to be more ACTIVE in your life.

- Yes, he loves his music, but he says he also loves you. He plays his guitar 12 hours a day. Now for a few hours, he needs to finger YOUR instrument! Aw! hahhaha! :)

- You want to see signals of his commitment with his ACTIONS. You can look at his life to determine if he's making plans for you to be in it by...

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