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Dating Advice: How to date a single mom. Should you?

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I in Detroit writes...

Hi Hog!

You have great dating advice and I want your help! I've known this girl for about 5 months. She's awesome, adorable and I can't get enough of her!

HOG'S NOTE: Ya know, back in the Bronx there was a girl I couldn't get enough of. Jennifer Mazzetti-Schwartz. I remember the amazing smell of her hair, spray. Oh so much hair spray back then. She had a wall of bangs that was as hard as the concrete sidewalks. Except it didn’t have bubble gum stuck to it. Well, there was ONE time because she got in a cat fight with Christina Colletti-Rosenbaum. Man, they went AT it! False eyelashes and fingernails flying everywhere! And they even swore not to attend each other's Bat Mitzvahs!

I've never had a girlfriend and I'm 19 in college. Sadly, she has a kid. I've been so confused about this part I don't know what to do.

I mean I like her a lot and she tells me she likes me too but I've kept her on a cliff for too long. I'm trying to look past that she has a kid (she's 17 by the way) so should I tell her how I truly feel and just move on?

It sucks because I've never had this feeling for a girl and I want to love her but she just has to have a kid.

Everything about her is what I've been waiting for! But everytime I think of her child that isn't mine it's like a wall. It just tears me apart inside.

- I in Detroit

Yeah, totally tell her your honest and self-serving feelings.

YOU: Hey, I REALLY like you. I like everything about you. Except for that baby in your arms. You know, the one you would die for. The baby you love with all your heart, who you carried for 9 months inside of you, sharing breaths and blood, I don't like it. But besides that, you're cool.

HER: <crying> I really like everything about YOU, except that little part of you that you’ve raised to be a BIG FAT JERK! GET OUT OF MY SIGHT BEFORE I SHOOT A CROSSBROW THROUGH YOUR FACE!


A NOTE TO EVERYBODY: This is not just about a baby. If you want to be with someone, you must ACCEPT what this other person loves. Not deal with it. Accept it. If you can, embrace it. As long as your girlfriend or boyfriend treats you well, then they have enough for love for both. Don't compete with their other love. That's stupid. A loving person has enough love in their heart for all their loves.

For you to love her, you must not see that child as her “mistake” or a reminder that she was with someone else. You must see that child as an opportunity to show how much you can love. You must be ready to help take care of that child because it’s part of her.

That said, you’d be entering a very complicated situation because she's probably involved with the child’s father. Plus, all the responsibilities this girl has, you would now have to help.

- when you love someone who is still in touch with their ex because they have a baby
- when you're dating your pet
- when you're in love with your first cousin but know you can't be together because they're in prison

REDNECK GUY: Yee-ha! That happened to me one time, on multiple occasions! Yeeee-imprisoned-cousin-lovin'!


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You can be in a relationship with her and tell her you want to take it very slowly because this is all new to you and you don’t want to hurt her. She may or may not agree to this.

From the outside, it’s easy to say, no. Go for someone else with less complications. But you're writing to me because you care for her.

You don’t “look past” the kid. You accept her situation. All of it. Or don’t do it.

Real love comes when you...

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