J in Tennessee writes...

Hey HogWild,

I absolutely love your advice, funny videos, & down to earth personality.

So, there is this guy that I REALLY like and it's obvious he likes me as well. The thing is he is a very big flirt with other girls! He's a big ladies man. I want to date him but I don't want to worry about all the girls being all over him. How can I get him to pull back on flirting and stay focused on me? Thanks bunches!! Much love!

- J in Tennessee

You gotta know that he's a big flirt going in. Yes, you can get your partner to adapt and change over time -- but it's not fair to expect him to make a big personality change from one day to the next.

NERDY GUY: Baby cakes, you have to realize that I'm pretty much a stud. I can't help it if the girls are all over me. I've got what they want. The math homework! But if you're MY lady, then I promise to share my homework with nobody but you. So what do you say? If you go with me to the dance, I'll write your book report! No? OK, TWO book reports!

Do not get into a relationship with a ladies man unless...

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- If the thought of your boyfriend flirting with other women makes you want to puke hummus and raisins, then don't be with a guy like that!

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- Once in a relationship with him you can get him to reduce his flirting with other women by making him feel...

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