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Watch my Dating Advice Video: How to get a girl to like you or read my dating advice for how to make a girl like you below: Hey HogWild, Your videos are awesome! The advice you give to people is great! I need help. I want to date my best friend! But I don't think she likes me back! How can I get her to like me?! What do I do? What do I say? Thanks! - N in Miami
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Is she REALLY your best friend? Because by trying to move your friendship into something intimate you risk losing her as a friend. I would never try to kiss MY best friend. Mostly because he'd kick me in the groin-danglers. So only proceed if you can deal with possibly losing her friendship. No reward without risk, right? What you need to do is to get her attracted to you. You need to get her to look at you in a new way. Right now she's look at you like THIS... (blank stare, half-smile) You want her to look at you like THIS... (seductive eyes, licking her lips, and pinching her n!pples.) This will require you to start treating her differently. Yes, she will notice. That's the point. She may get upset. That's fine. Because if she's too comfortable with you, she'll never be attracted to you. You want her to be comfortable with you in that she trusts you and she can be herself around you. You DON'T want her to feel so comfortable that she is picking her nose and burping around you. GOOD COMFORT BAD COMFORT WAYS HOW TO GET A GIRL TO LIKE YOU - The number 1 most important way: Be confident. Women are attracted to confident dudes. This means you are a man who knows what he wants and knows how to get it. WHAT I WANT HOW TO GET IT NOTE TO PRETTY GIRLS WITH PIZZA MAKING SKILLS: Will you marry me? :) Just kidding! Kind of. When you are confident, nothing shakes you. Well, except for homosexual grizzly bears attacking you during an earthquake. When you are confident, you are in control of yourself and your environment. You can handle anything thrown your way. Except ninja-stars. For that'll you need confidence PLUS excellent ninja-star dodging abilities. You should ACT confidently. Speak with authority. Walk tall. Don't twitch. You have an open stance, you're not hunched over in a protective ball. This takes LOTS of practice but it's the best thing you can do for your life. Not just for girls. For yourself. TWO SUPER EASY WAYS TO BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN 1 - Start dressing better. This is not super important but it's super easy to do and it will make her take notice. Have a style. Different girls are attracted to different styles. Some girls go for bad boys with tattoos, some go for skater boys, some go for clean cut preppy types... The point is, choose a style and look great. Don't be generic dude. 2 - Start smelling better. ALWAYS be clean. Get a great cologne so you don't smell like Ode de' Arm Pit. Don't drench yourself in cologne. Apply enough that when she gets close she can smell it and sets her Passion Area a-fire. NOTE TO GIRLS: If your Passion Area ACTUALLY catches on fire it could be crotch-rot. Contact your doctor. Or Fire Department. MORE POWERFUL WAYS HOW TO MAKE A GIRL WANT YOU - Show her that you have your choice of girls. Make sure she sees you with other girls. The hotter the better. Even if they're just friends, she doesn't have to know that. At the very least, TALK about hanging out with other girls. But be casual. Don't make it obvious. Bragging is a sign of weakness and insecurity. - Let her know she can't have you. This is the Law of Life: People want what they can't have. And the truth is, she CAN'T have you. Yet. She is going to have to prove to you that she's worthy. Yes, really make her show you that she would make a great girlfriend. Don't be easy. You can say something like, "I have a strict rule against dating friends. So stop looking so hot in those jeans! It's annoying!" Then smile. Then change the subject. Don't wait for her to respond. It's just your thought, you're not asking her opinion. Now she knows she can't have you because you don't date your friends. In reality, rules are made to be broken and if she's really awesome you might make an exception for her. Maybe. - Be someone she wants to prove herself to. In general, girls by their nature are always seeking approval. They hate to admit it, but they do it all the time. Guys, we don't care so much what people think about us. Girls REALLY care. They seek approval from their friends, from adults, from strangers, and -- if you're a cool guy -- from you. So say things like, "Those shoes look great on you." You've just judged her (in a favorable way.) But now she will be wondering what you think of the rest of her outfit. Don't be afraid to say if you don't like something. Don't be mean. Say it nicely. If a girl asks me my opinion on her hideously ugly new shirt, "Do you like my new shirt?", I say... "My favorite is that red shirt you have because it brightens up your face and that's good because you're pretty! This shirt doesn't compliment you as well. Just my opinion." MORE SUPER KICK-ASS WAYS TO MAKE A WOMAN WANT YOU - Be awesome! - Don't be so available. Law of Life: People value things that are scarce. People take for granted things that are abundant. Giant Pandas are scarce so they are very expensive. Pizza is everywhere so it doesn't cost too much. Does that really make sense? Pizza tastes WAY better than Panda Bears! Giant Pandas don't even make good pets! They just lay around all day and eat bamboo. But because they're in very limited supply people will pay much more for a Giant Panda then they will for a pizza. So keep being her friend but don't spend hours and hours on the phone. Don't answer every text message right away. You're busy! Be busy doing COOL things. Look at it from her perspective. Which dude would she think is cooler?... 1 - The guy who talks to her all day and night and then when she tries to say goodbye he cries, "Nooooo!!! Stay on the phone so I can listen to you sleep!"? or 2 - The guy who calls her back to say, "Sorry I missed your call, babe. I was in the backyard eating pizza with Lo Min, my pet Giant Panda." An easy rule is that YOU always end the phone conversation first. Why? Because you've got sh!t to do! Always end the conversation on a happy note. Did you just make her laugh really hard? Great! Now tell her, "Listen I gotta get going. It was good talking with you." Now she'll be all like, "Aw! But I'm having so much fun! I don't want you to go!" That's what you want. You want her to MISS you. You DON'T want her to be bored on the phone. You don't want her to get too much of you. Just enough that you leave her wanting more. - She needs to respect you. THINGS GIRLS RESPECT ABOUT GUYS - Tease her in a fun way. Treat her like she's just another one of your goofy friends. Do NOT act all romantic. Being romantic is for AFTER you are couple. - Tell her FLATTERING stories about yourself. Do NOT tell her stories that make you look bad. Good stories are stories where you are protecting your loved ones, you're being a leader, you're being intelligent, you're helping someone, or you're rejecting girls because they're not up to your standards. Don't tell her stories that make you look stupid or mean. You CAN tell stories where you look a little goofy because that shows you are confident enough that you can laugh at yourself. - Make her feel great. Girls want to feel smart, pretty, and sexy. Since you're already friends, she cares about your opinion. So when she does something that fits into one of these categories -- tell her about it! - Do fun things together. She loves chocolate? Take her to the BEST specialty chocolate shop in town! Stay away from Negative-Attraction behavior: THINGS THAT WILL MAKE A GIRL LOSE ATTRACTION TO YOU If you're doing it right, she will start showing you that she is attracted to you. LOOK for the signals! Don't expect her to tell you. You're the man. It's YOUR job to make the first move. Especially since you told her that you don't date your friends. You will need to explain that she is SO SPECIAL that she is making you break your rule. Then give her the best kiss of her life. Then burn down her house so she has to stay at your place! Then cuddle with her in bed while Lo Min the Giant Panda makes you pizza!
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