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Dating Advice: How to Handle Silences in the Conversation

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K in the U.K. writes...

Hey Hog,

When talking to someone I've noticed silences happen. I'm usually fine fine with this but what about if silences happen when it's someone you're interested in? How do you deal with that?

- K in the U.K.

Whether there are silences or constant chatter is really a THING. Let's talk about the big picture.

You want to make the girl feel ATTRACTED to you. And you want to make her feel comfortable around you so you can form an emotional bond.

This question of silence applies to men AND women.

Some people are cool with........ long pauses. Some people are cool with simply enjoying the moment with each other. They don't need EVERY FREAKING MOMENT TO BE POLLUTED WITH HER INANE PRATTLING PRATE. STOP YER YAMMERIN' WOMAN!

Sorry. Flashback.

When you're speaking... a thoughtful silence... can be sexy. It shows the girl that you have the confidence to stop because you know you'll keep her attention.

YOU: Ya know what I like about you........ you're really... different than most women I meet. Your eyes have a passion to them that reveal your love of life. I think that's important.

YOU: Ya know what I like about you.... uh, er, um...... Dammit! I forgot what I was going to say! You're um.... oh yeah! You're eyes... have a booger in them.

OK but if you and the other person straight up have got nothin'. You know what... change the conversation topic!

If things have been going well to this point... the other person WANTS things to go well so they will go with your new topic.

If things have been shaky or crappy then she or he will use the silence as an excuse to leave.

So if you haven't yet made this other person attracted to you... don't allow for a dead spot in the conversation. Push forward.

5 Easy Ways to keep the conversation going...

1 - Tell a story. You DO have stories right? If you don't, watch my videos on how to tell a story! Videos numbers 0272, 0332, and 0335.

It's best if it kinda relates to ANYTHING you've been talking about so far.

2 - Comment on something in the moment.

YOU: .....
HER: .....
YOU: Oh wow, look at the super cute puppy!
HER: Aw, I love young animals because of their exuberance, enthusiasm, and proclivity for random urination!
YOU: Yeah! We had a great dog at the station back when I was a volunteer firefighter.
HER: That's cool. I once volunteered to take of my top in exchange for a necklace made of beads.
YOU: .....
HER: .... Look at the super cute puppy!

3 - This is great one to break the silence in a conversation, comment about...

This is taken from my Premium Members section where I post my new videos.

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- If you get stuck, simply change the topic to something enjoyable.

YOU: But that would seem random!

Yes! But a new fun topic is WAAAY better than NO topic.

- If you are absolutely stuck, then use this easy and powerful conversational tip...

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