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Dating Advice: What to do when your girlfriend or selfish boyfriend is inconsiderate of your feelings

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K in Indianapolis writes...

Dear Hog,

I love my boyfriend but he asked me out of the blue if I wanted to go to Austin for a vacation! I said I might if he'd tell me the REAL reason he wanted to go to Austin.

Then he said there was an F1 race there.

F1 race

I have been trying to get him to agree to a vacation for more than a year! I have had several vacation things I bought before we met waiting to be used and he'd never agree. Now he wants this vacation and I really couldn't care less.

I'd love to have time to spend with him but I have already said that I WON'T have everything we do based on cars. HELP! I would feel much better if he DIDN'T assume I would be dying to go.

- K in Indianapolis

Be gentle and honest with him.

YOU: Sweetie, thank you for inviting me to attend this single seater auto racing extravaganza. I really do enjoy inhaling vehicle exhaust fumes while having my ear drums pounded from the noise of loud engines and screeching tires. And I find it very exciting to watch traffic go around and around. I can't think of anything else I'd rather do...... except shoot myself in eye with a garlic gun YOU INSENSITIVE SELFISH BASTARD!


CHEESY GUY: Are you saying you like don't races? That makes you... racist.

OK, when you're angry it's because you feel hurt. And most times, it's better to let your partner know you feel HURT as opposed to yelling at them. Because when you throw anger at someone, most of the time, they get defensive and throw anger back.

When you breathe deep and expose how they’ve hurt you... they also let down their guard and they begin to LISTEN. When someone LOVES you, they can't stand to know they’ve hurt you.

It doesn't mean you are necessarily CORRECT to feel hurt... but it DOES give them a chance to understand you. And that's when you can both find a loving solution.

You should let him know that his vacation choice hurt your feelings because it makes you feel like his races are more important than you.

You respect his passion for it and you’ll try to be supportive of it (even though it’s not fun for you) but it hurts that he can’t find the will or desire to do something together you would BOTH really enjoy.

Like apple picking! In the nude. Aw yeah, n@ked fruit gathering.

CHEESY GUY: Baby, let's go nude apple picking in the Garden of Eden, but beware of the snake! MY snake.

adam and eve apple

Here is exactly how to make a selfish boyfriend or inconsiderate girlfriend understand you...

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- Neither of you should do anything you dislike. At the same time you can learn to find honest enjoyment in almost any kind of activity. Here is how...

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