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Dating Advice: What to do when your girlfriend or boyfriend won't forgive you for a past mistake

by me, HogWild


T in Michigan writes...

Hi Hog,

I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and a few months ago it came out that I lied to him about an issue that was before we started dating.

I didn't think it was his business and he says that me lying to him about it IS his business which I agree with, however, I maintain I should be allowed my privacy on that subject.

The problem is that now his defense in all arguments and his "get out of jail free" card" is that he calls me a liar. How would you handle this?

Thanks for your help!

- T in Michigan

Well... we all want to know, WHAT DID YOU LIE ABOUT?!

What could be so sensitive that you would hide the truth from him and when he DID discover the truth, he would go crazy...

O.M.G. You were a man! Ahhhh!!! You were a man with testicles! Big hairy ones! Aahhh!!

Or your lie, could it be your number of sex partners?

HIM: Back then you said you had only been with 2 guys before me!

YOU: Right! Two. (mumbling) hundred.

HIM: Two hundred!

YOU: Right! Two hundred. (mumbling) thousand.

HIM: Two hundred thousand! How is that even POSSIBLE?!

YOU: Do you really want me to show you the calculations? 200,000 divided by 3 inputs times an 8 hour work day in Thailand...

HIM: <puking>

Look, whatever the lie, there's two main issues here:

1 - He is incredibly hurt because he feels as if you deceived him

2 - For this relationship to continue, he must forgive you.

Once he forgives you, he will stop bringing this thing up over and over.

If he can't forgive you, he can't be with you.

So let's deal with his hurt feelings.

You must explain to him, "Hey, I love you. I'm so sorry that I hurt you. I didn’t intend to deceive you. You asked me a really private thing and -- at that time -- I thought I was doing the right thing by telling a lie... to hide that I was once a man. With big hairy balls. But things are different now.

"I have a perfect laboratory constructed prosthetic vagina. And we've become so close and I would never lie to you about something like that again. I care about you so much. I hope that how I've treated you these last 2 years shows you the real me. Please don't judge me so harshly for a mistake I made 2 years ago.

"I love you. And for us to go back to having a happy relationship, you need to find it in your heart to forgive me. Please.... And besides, I always shave my balls now."

Then give him some time and space to digest all that. Maybe it's a few days. If he STILL can't forgive you, then you might have to collect a basket of 4 leaf clovers and mix it into a rabbit stew spiked with snake venom. Oh wait, that’s how to make a witch's brew. Either way, you will end the relationship.

HINT: Never end a relationship by poisoning your partner with a witch's brew! It's obviously traceable because people will see you escaping the crime scene on your flying broom! Duh.

YOU: I really wish you could forgive me but it looks like you can't. And since you're still holding in all this anger, it's made you impossible to be with. I don't think I can be with you anymore. I wish it weren't this way but it looks like our relationship is over.

You will know he has truly forgiven you when you see this signal from him...

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- For him to forgive you, he must adopt a new perspective on what has happened. You must regain his trust.

- There is a totally different way to handle this. I'd suggest trying the nice way first. But if that doesn't work, do this...

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