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Dating Advice: How to stop choking under pressure. (When I see a hottie, I don't know what to say or do.)

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R in Boston writes...

Hey Hog,

Your dating advice videos are amazing at how much they’ve helped me. Plus they crack me up.

My problem is that I'm getting really tight and I forget what to do or even how to carry a normal conversation when I'm with a beautiful girl.

I've gotten so much better (thanks to you) with every kind of situation. And I'm actually pretty good with most girls now. So how can I just relax and let these extra-hot girls see my true awesomeness?

- B in Boston

When you have trouble executing what you KNOW how to do under pressure, that's called choking.

REDNECK GUY: Yee-ha! Choking ALSO refers to the manual maneuver of choking your chicken. Ya know, for slaughter. I hate to choke my chicken but it's the only way I know how to put food on table. Sometimes I choke my chicken fantasizing about nibbling on those succulent breasts. It hurts me to do it, but it's usually over in one quick jerk. One quick foul jerk. Yeee-poultry!

Choking happens because of something that's actually really great about you.

You have a passionate DESIRE! You WANT it! You're not one of these guys who's not sure of what he wants and kinda floats around. No. You have a burning desire for a beautiful woman and you are putting yourself in a position to attract her.

The REASON you are choking is... you are trying too hard. This puts too much pressure on yourself. When us humans feel pressure, we fumble, we forget, we F up!

NERDY GUY: Sometimes I put too much pressure on myself. I want to be so good at my World of Wizard Dragons role playing game that I get nervous and breakout in elbow skin all over my face! My face looks like my elbow! But that also happens when I eat tacos. But I forget even the simplest things like how to cast a Rutrinky spell that’s easy for the even the most NOVICE orc! And I am very experienced at being an ORC! I've been an orc my whole life! A big huge orc!

When you choke -- whether you are male or female -- it's because you’ve allowed your EMOTIONS to take over. No. YOU must be in control. Your emotions come from your thoughts. You are re-running pressure thoughts such as:

"I gotta do this right! What if I screw up?! She's not gonna like me! What do I say?! What do I do?! Did I forget my clothes in the washer?"

These are not useful thoughts. Stop them.

Except for the washer thought. You don't want your clothes to get stinky.

You must relax.

YOU: OK, I'M RELAXED! But how do I relax?!

Faith. Allow your training and preparation to take over so you can be in the moment. Have faith in your preparation.

But what if I'm NOT prepared?

Then GET prepared by following these steps...

This is taken from my Premium Members section where I post my new videos.

Here are some more tips, but only Premium Members get the entire video + access to over 250 full dating and relationship videos in the Video Vault!

- So stop thinking so much and start GIVING to them. Give them a fun, interesting conversation.

- Don't be intimidated. Ya know, they might be intimidated by YOU if they had to face you in the area where you are most skilled. Remember that. This person is not your superior. They are just someone you would like to know.

- Use all your HogWild knowledge about attraction, conversation, story telling, body language and flirting. Then you need to do these 3 simple but very important things...

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