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Too many guys are kissing butt in their conversation with girls, trying to be their friend. We already know you must ATTRACT a woman first. Yes, be friendly, but not a suck-up. Be a MAN. Be strong.
Like grapefruit juice. And not the pink kind! The yellow grapefruit that when you slice into it, a tiny spec flies into your eye, blinding you for weeks!
One way to do that is make comments about her and her personality.
YOU: Isn't judging bad?
It CAN be. Your job is not to "judge" her in a supercilious way, it's to judge her favorably but only when she deserves it.
AN EXAMPLE OF A COMMENT
HER: I really enjoy trying new foods. It's fun.
YOU: I like that about you! You're adventurous! My last girlfriend was fun but she was kinda hesitant to eat exotic foods and try new things. Tell me an unusual food you've tried.
OK, so what happened here? Most guys just ask, What kind of new foods? Or they jump into THEIR story of trying a new food. That's fine. But this is also a PRIME opportunity to COMMENT on her personality.
Remember, only be sincere. If you think it's cool that she tries new foods, tell her! But not just the THING... tell her what it says about HER as a PERSON. In the comment I said, I like that about you! You're adventurous!
Now she knows I find that aspect of her personality attractive AND... I've labeled her. A lot of people try to live up to the positive labels you stick on them.
NERD BOY: It's true! That's why every day I work hard to be a dork. Some people think it's a put down, but my Grandma wouldn't do that! It's good to be a dork! The letters in dork stand for, Definitely Original Really Kewl. That's right, I spelled Cool with a K. K-E-W-L. Kewl! I spelled it the "kewl" way! Or is it the dorky way? Hmm, sometimes I get cool and dorky confused.
She will now search internally for ways to show me she's adventurous. If she's liking me so far, her attraction to me is INCREASED because most humans tend to like those who like them.
I don't just like her because she's pretty. I gave her a real reason.
Boobies! Woo-hoo! Boobies!
No! If a girl has you won simply by her LOOKS, then you lost. She must WIN YOU with her personality. Her looks will INTEREST YOU. Obviously. But it should take more than that.
Like her booty! Woo-hoo! Booty!
When talking to a woman, ask yourself, "What's cool about this girl?
Her boobies!
What's interesting about this girl?
When she speaks on a topic she's passionate about, the way she takes a deep breath and that brings up her BOOBIES!
What's unique about this girl?
She's got boobies!
Then comment on it.
You got nice boobies!
HER: The next trip I want to take is to Thailand. I really love elephants and there you have a chance to ride them and learn about them. They're my favorite animal.
YOU: Oh that's awesome! That's cool that you're so into elephants. Most people would say their favorite animal is a dog or cat. You're unique. I like that. You seem different from most of the women I meet. Tell me, what is it about elephants that you love so much?
See how you judge her in a GOOD way? Now she will look for MORE of your approval.
This puts you in the alpha position of the relationship. It takes the assumption that you are the dominant one to make statements that judge her personality and tastes.
This is not a bad thing or a jerk thing because you're only commenting on things you really do like. What you're doing is subtlety letting her know that you're analyzing her.
HER: Ouch!
NERD BOY: Sorry! I had to pluck one of your hairs to analyze you in the lab! Now if you wouldn't mind, please go into the restroom with this test tube.
Not that kind of analyzing!
You have your choice of women and you're DECIDING if she's cool enough to hang out with you.
Because if you're judging her favorably, she starts to think of you like...
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- Another example is: "Ya know what I like about you? You're your own woman. You do what you feel. I respect that about you."
- Here are 3 more examples of comments you can say when you talk to women, but beware of this very common #1 mistake guys make when doing this...
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