♥ Dating Advice: My girlfriend of 6 years no longer wants sex. Is it normal for a couple's sex life to deteriorate? Expert Dating Advice


Dating Advice: My girlfriend of 6 years no longer wants sex. Is it normal for a couple's sex life to deteriorate?

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P in Kentucky writes...

Hey Hog,

Your dating advice videos have been a tremendous help to me.

My problem is that my girlfriend of 6 years is no longer interested in sex. I'm in good shape, smart, nice, and kind to her.

Is it normal for a couple's sex life to deteriorate like this? What can I do? I want sex and I don't want to leave her because I love her.

- P in Kentucky

Is it "normal" for a couple's sex life to go to hell? Who cares?! Around here, we don't shoot for "normal" or "average." We're AWESOME!

So NO! This is not acceptable!

It is not acceptable to be anything less than awesome!

- ignoring feelings
- poor communication
- lack of heartfelt intimate moments involving your bushy parts. hahha or trimmed parts. Hopefully trimmed!

Yes, you have seen each other naked 8 billion times. That's why relationships based on sex die relatively quickly. If your relationship is DEEPER... you are building a life TOGETHER... not 2 separate lives as roommates but a life TOGETHER... your feelings for each other should become MORE intense.

It's a DIFFERENT feeling, but still a sexual one.

Sure, at the beginning it's more of an animal lust of wild fire passions of animals jumping through fires that are wild of animals on fire!

But as the years pass, it shouldn't rain on your fire! No!

You crazy wild animals should jump into the trees and swing! Um... that didn't sound right. You don't need to become swingers! You need to build a nest in the trees and fly high like hawks in the night sky against a bright moon. Dancing back and forth with wings spread open, talons gripping into their back, screeeching out in pleasure!

Sexy is when your partner loves you with all their heart. Sexy is when they would do ANYTHING for you. Sexy is when they are DEVOTED to you. Sexy is when you know that whatever is happening in this nutty upside down topsy turvy twisty tie Universe... you can always count on the love of your special someone. How many people are LUCKY enough to have THAT in their life?

HINT: Not many!

If you have that... TREASURE it! Take care of it! And for goodness sakes, rub its groin!

The first thing to do is:

Examine yourself. Do you still give her reasons to be attracted to you?

YOU: <belch> I sure do! Just last weekend I took her out for her birthday and after a nice romantic dinner, I returned her tray to the waste bin and invited her come bowling with me and the fellas. And you know why I did that? Because it was all-you-can-eat chili night. What a deal! The best part of all-you-can-eat-chili night at the Bowling Alley is that nobody knows you're the one destroying the toilet because everyone is wearing the same shoes! It's great!

The main reason a woman loses attraction to a man is because she LOSES RESPECT for him.

Did that happen? If it did, earn it back. Then her hoo-ha will magically regain its vulva-vivaciousness.

Second, once you have corrected your side of things, tell her that infrequent sex is unacceptable. Be a man. She will desire your balls once you start using them.

Now, you must also be compassionate. Has she lost interest in sex because of her own insecurities, like weight gain?

Does she have some physical problem inside her vergerner?

If you're both under 50 and reasonably healthy, the cause is probably that she is not attracted to you. Watch my videos on how to get a woman attracted to you. Here's how to get the magic back with YOUR girlfriend in particular...

This is taken from my Premium Members section where I post my new videos.

Here are some more tips, but only Premium Members get the entire video + access to over 250 full dating and relationship videos in the Video Vault!

- Watch my videos on being unattractive. Delete those behaviors from your life.

- Make sure you are being manly for your woman. A leader. Disciplined. Honorable. Responsible. A problem solver. A compassionate person. Slayer of bugs.

- Once you've got YOUR behaviors together, if she STILL has no desire, you need ask this very important question about yourself...

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