♥ Dating Advice: How I learned that confidence is the key to success with women Expert Dating Advice


Dating Advice: How I learned that confidence is the key to success with women

by me, HogWild


How I learned that confidence is the key to success with women:

When I was a teenager I was on a family vacation to a resort. And I remember seeing a beautiful girl in the hotel lobby with HER family.

Being a boy, I was entirely won over by her pretty face. To me, she was an angel. I had never heard her speak a word nor shared a single moment with her. But I was smitten. Smitten I tell you!

So what was I to do about my affection for this girl? I did what I had always done. I wrote her a poem.

NERD BOY: Oh that's a mistake! You can never win a girl's heart with an appeal to her EMOTIONS! You need to be perfectly logical. That’s why when I like a girl, I email her a chart of pros and cons for dating me.

chart of pros and cons

NERD BOY: Then I prove that we would make a good couple mathematically. Nothing melts a girl's heart like integral symbols and exponents! ... In theory. Oh why can't women exist in a vacuum!

My poem strategy had never worked, but I enjoyed writing and I was good at it and she had inspired me with her soft hair and the sparkle in her eyes.

So I professed my affection for her with rhymes penned in my neatest handwriting on a little piece of paper.

I would wait for my chance to see her again in the hotel and I would give her my poem.

I had carefully worked on each line. Every metaphor had special meaning. It was romantic.

But all that romance was imagined.

Because to her, I was a random boy handing her a piece of paper.

I DID see her again and I gave her the poem and included my hotel room number so she could knock on my door after her heart was melted by my flowery lyrics honoring her beauty.

Of course, she never knocked. I don't know what she did with that poem. Maybe she laughed. Maybe she thought it was cute. Maybe it boosted her ego. Maybe she used it to blow her nose.

I took the rejection hard. I felt humiliated. Frustrated. Confused. Angry at myself for my cowardice. But then I felt new emotions.

New emotions that spurred me on. I felt determined. I felt empowered. I felt fed up with my behavior!

I was in the resort's video game room by myself when I saw an incredibly pretty girl. Tall and fit with a beautiful smile. The old me of literally yesterday would have shyly and quietly slipped away to a desk to express my adoration in writing.

But not this time.

I had seen from my teen friends that the ones who experienced the most success were the boys who were bold. Daring. Unafraid to approach a girl and talk to her like she was a regular person and not some goddess to be worshipped.

So I approached this hot girl, this total stranger, and I made small talk. I have no idea what we spoke about but it was happening.

My heart was pounding like the fists of a fat 3 year old child on the table when his food hasn’t yet arrived, but I tried to look calm and relaxed like a meditating koala bear on a leather sofa.

She was just a girl. A regular person. And I have every right to be there and get to know her.

And so I did. And she gave me her contact information so easily I couldn't believe it! After a few minutes of conversation, I was making a beautiful girl smile!

The me of yesterday would have had an imaginary relationship with her in my mind. It would take MONTHS to build up the courage to talk to her like I did now.

But the me of Today was setting up a time to meet later on. Yes, a date.

Yesterday, a pretty girl didn't react to me. Today a pretty girl reacted incredibly favorably. What was different?

I was wearing pretty much the same dorky clothes. I hadn't gotten taller in a day. I didn't add any muscles. I had done one thing.

NERD BOY: I know! I know! You made a pie chart!

pie chart

I flipped a switch in my head. I was to be confident! I was to do the things I hadn't dared do before.

And because of that, we had an amazing week together.

NERD BOY: I think he means their souls intersected on the X and Y axis!

The point of the story isn't simply that...

This is taken from my Premium Members section where I post my new videos.

Here are some more tips, but only Premium Members get the entire video + access to over 400 full dating and relationship videos in the Video Vault!

- I saw new things within my grasp. I had no reason to be afraid... of ANYTHING! Except Mr. Rosen. Because he would do random homework checks and pop quizzes. And he would get right in your face with his ferocious breath that smelled like coffee and doody.

- Whatever you want is within YOUR reach. You must believe in yourself. It's closer than think. You are one switch away. One switch turns on the electricity to the most awesome version of YOU. And it's only minutes, hours, days, until that electricity is powering you to do what it takes to accomplish your dreams.

You can talk to that beautiful girl. You can earn that better job. You can live the life you want. You increase your expectations. You can give more to the world.

The first step is to...

Only Premium Members have access to this Video!

1 - Learn more about the Premium Membership


2 - You realize Life is Short, get the relationship you deserve and Join Now!


Need one-on-one coaching? Contact Dating Coach HogWild for help!

Latest HogWild Dating Advice

Subscribe to RSS headline updates from:
Powered by FeedBurner

Professional Dating Advice videos and expert dating advice by award-winning comedian HogWild!

Click here to Get Greater Dating Confidence + Increase your Relationship Skills

"The most important part of any relationship... is choosing the right person... in the first place." - HogWild

With your Premium Membership, I'll show you WHY that is true... and HOW to choose the right person for you.

HogWild's dating advice and comedy has been viewed by over 2 million people on YouTube. They have written thousands of positive comments thanking him for his coaching.

He has won awards for his outstanding teaching abilities and stand-up comedy and has been featured on PBS, Mad Magazine, Clear Channel Radio and more!

He has premium members learning from his dating advice from all over the globe including the United States, United Kingdom, Germany, Denmark, Ireland, Egypt, Mexico, Australia, and Canada. Yes, even Canada! :)

Become a paid member and you get INSTANT access to over 400 dating advice videos that will help you answer such questions as...

"How to be mega-confident"

"How can I become more desirable?"

"How to conquer the Fear of Rejection"

"How to Approach"

"How to get hotter sex"

"How to read the secrets of body language to know if someone REALLY likes you"

"How to keep a person loyal to you"

"How to tell a story so it increases attraction to you"

"4 Great Places to Meet your next Girlfriend/Boyfriend"

"How to Get over your Ex. Completely."

"How Flirt Effectively"

"How to Destroy Negative Thoughts"

"How to Immediately Screen out the Psychos"

"#1 Mistake that makes Conversations with new People Boring"

"7 Ways you are being Unattractive"

"8 Tips for the first time you have sex with a person of the sexy sex"

"How to deal with being hurt"

"How to bring out your inner-awesome"

And so much more!

You will finally feel control over your dating life and you will get the relationship you really want.

HogWild's dating advice makes it easy!

Become a member and get INSTANT access to the videos that will change your love life forever!



dating coach hogwilddating coach hogwilddating coach hogwild

Get Instant Access to over 400 helpful + hilarious dating advice videos you can't find anywhere else! *** Join the HogWild Relationship Revolution! ***


expert dating advice* Dayse in Michigan: "Hog, I love your videos! Thank you sooo much! I'm speechless... you said everything I needed to hear. :) "


* Emmy in England: (Press Play to listen!)

Professional Dating Advice and Expert Dating Advice Videos by HogWild are awesome!

* Samantha in Melbourne, Australia (Press play to watch!)

Professional Dating Advice Videos by HogWild

* Jose in Chicago (Press play to watch!)

Dating Advice Videos by Dating Coach HogWild

* Maria in Arizona: (Press Play to listen!)

Dating Advice Coach HogWild

* Jade in Mexico (Press play to watch!)

Professional Dating Advice Videos

* Tim in Indiana writes, "Thanks to your videos I got myself a date. So I'd like to thank you for the videos, they really helped."

* Rose in the U.K. writes, "I love your videos. They're just all so amazing! The dating advice is always spot on and you're so hilarious. Thanks for helping so much, 'tis more than appreciated."

* Kristie T. in Syracuse writes, "I am a fan of your dating advice! It's very funny! I like the one on how to give a girl the best kiss ever. So hot! And so true!"

* D. in Canada: "I stumbled across your web site one night while I was searching for some advice on how to deal with rejection. I went from a sobby-teary-eyed mess to laughing my head off for the rest of the night. So... Thank you!"

* Karen in Las Vegas: "You need to have your own show. You need to be on Oprah or Jay Leno or come to Vegas. You are actually addicting, funny, and I think Dr. Phil doesn't stand a chance. I'm your biggest fan."

* Aaron in USA: "I have received more guy help in your 8 minute and 35 second video than all my guy friends have given me in a lifetime. Props man."

* D. in Wisconsin writes, "I wish boys were born with the knowledge you possess."

* Niki in Virginia: "As a 33 year old divorced attorney, I felt a bit frivolous typing the words "How do I know I am in love" into a search engine. I am a woman who married young, for practical reasons, and has been very content as cruising the single scene and developing a professional name for myself since divorce. My shelf-life with a man has been like 6-8 weeks, then I get bored and move along. Then I met Oscar, just two months ago.

This morning I literally woke up, and just like that song, screamed out "I think I love you." So, the analytical person that I am, I decided to do some internet research, prompting me to conduct the aforementioned search.

And I read a bunch of articles. Psycho-babble. No internal answers were coming.

Then I came across YOUR video. Seriously, this is the most real and true helpful piece of advice regarding love I have ever heard.

I listened once. Listened twice. Listened three times. And said out loud, I am going to chose to love this man. I have finally met a man worthy of my love.

So, just wanted to let you know your advice made an impact on some girl in Northern VA.

I appreciate your "voice" and intend to keep watching as well. Thanks!"

* Janice in USA: "I came across your video, How do I know if I'm really in Love. I watched it and I was hooked. I've watched all your videos. They're so funny! Your videos are very entertaining and you give really good advice."

* K. in New York: "Thanks for the great advice Hog, it works. I got two numbers at a party last night. Sweet!"

* Lira in Texas writes, "You're both hilarious and helpful! I love your videos!"

* Natasha in Montreal: "Your advice has been the best I've found online. And I looked hard. (I said hard, ha!) You've helped me grasp how guys perceive the things I say."

* Dylan in Iowa writes, "Dude, your dating advice works so fast!

"Because of you, I got the girl I wanted. She has already told me she thinks I am finally the right guy for her because I treat her so well. She treats me just as good.

I think we are going to be together for a long time. Thanks again, Hog."

Come be a part of the HogWild Relationship Revolution!

If you're not sure how to attract the girl or guy you want... If you have trouble making conversation... if you're never quite sure if somebody likes you... if you want to bring your sexual sha-boinking skills to the next level... if you want to learn how to make your partner CRAVE you... if you want to know how to have your CHOICE of worthy partners... JOIN NOW.

♥ Dating Advice: How I learned that confidence is the key to success with women Expert Dating Advice
HOGWILD.NET  expert dating advice. helpful and hilarious dating advice videos