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Dating Advice: Dating Site Introduction: Your first message while online dating

by me, HogWild


Let's say you're on a dating site for singles and you get a "wink" or a "tap" or a "poke" or a "whip" -- if it's a dominatrix site! hahah


Oh man, it'd be cool if they had a dating site for immature people like me. If you like a girl, you click a button to pull her pony-tail. Or a throw a handful of cheese doodles at her. haha

OK so you get some kind of contact from someone. Or maybe you want to start the conversation with something interesting and personalized. Let's look at what to do.

I'm helping S in Las Vegas with one-on-one relationship coaching (which is an extra service I provide) and he's agreed to share some of the stuff we've talked about because, in this case, it applies to lots of people.

S in Las Vegas says,

I just got a wink from this woman. My new online dating profile that you helped me write is working. Thank you!

Could you help me with an introduction message to send back?

Her dating profile states:

I'm an independent woman with a pioneering adventurous side. I like working out and staying fit and healthy.

I need a man who believes in God. If so, we should definitely be talking.

I'm very grateful for all that I have and don't take anything for granted. Although I've never been married and have no kids, I love children and pets.

wiener dog

I'm content being single but finding a special man would be outstanding! Something simple at first, a No Strings Attached friendship, then if things develop we can get more serious and get off this online dating site.

I like to be adventurous and sometimes I'll take off on a road trip. I appreciate the mountains and nature. I'm self employed with a small company here in Nevada. I'm also an inventor and spend a lot of my time tinkering on inventions. I have one patent I'm working on currently. I have a good mind and I'm a reasonable woman with a positive outlook on life.

OK, she goes on further but you get the main idea.

The way to write back is to focus on something she is PASSIONATE about.

If not that, then you can ask her an interesting question.

But seeing as she has some cool things going on in her life, I'd start by talking about her passions.


If their passion is training show dogs:

YOU: Wow! I've never been to a show but I've seen it on TV. You must have a huge love for your dogs. What is the most rewarding part of the experience for you?


If their passion is removing chewing gum from underneath park benches:

YOU: Wow! That's so cool that you take the time to beautify the underside of our public benches.

THEM: I don't do it to clean up the park. I do it for the free gum.

YOU: Eeeeeeeeew!!!

In this case, keep in mind that God is very important to this woman. She said that at the start. That may make her more attractive to you or signal an incompatible trait.

You can write back:

Finally! A wink from a woman who seems to be INTERESTING and COOL! A lot of women here don't really catch my fancy but (if I'm reading your profile correctly) you seem to have something really important: Character. You know who you are and what you want. I like that.

We seem to have a number of things in common. We're both entrepreneurs, fond of nature walks, and very fit. I also have a strong belief in the Lord.

In fact, I tie my fitness routines to my prayers. I created a yoga stance where I lunge forward and then hold my hands in prayer and thrust them to the sky. And when I do downward dog pose, I imagine I'm looking down at Satan and I make funny faces at him! And I feel comfort that God thinks I'm beautiful even when He has to see my rear end sticking up at Him!

HINT: Don't write that. hahah

Continue your first message by writing the most important part, which is...

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