E in New Jersey writes...

Hey Hog,

I'm faithful to my girlfriend. But last night I was severely tempted. This super hot girl approaches me. That never happens! And she kisses me on the lips! And she wants more but I say, "I would love to but I have a girlfriend."

How do I know if I should really be with my girlfriend? Sometimes I feel like maybe I should go for a girl who is hotter. Or a girl with a better family situation.

- E in New Jersey

First, congratulations on having the strength to turn down a hot chick!

Many dudes would have had this conversation with their pen!s:

DUDE: This girl is hot! But I don't want to hurt my girlfriend.
PEN!S: What girlfriend?
DUDE: You know, the supportive girl who cares about me.
PEN!S: Is she here right now?
DUDE: No, but...
PEN!S: She's probably out playing jump-rope with 2 huge d!cks.
DUDE: What does that mean?
PEN!S: It means you should go for this hot chick in front of you!

There will always be temptation. And if you one day break-up with your girlfriend, you will regret all the "could've/should've girls." But, I say, if you're going to be in a relationship, be in it 100%.

Should you be with this particular girl who is your girlfriend?

Simple compatibility checklist:

1 - Do you share the same core values?
2 - Does she make your inner child feel safe and happy?
3 - Is the sex good?
4 - Do you laugh together?
5 - Is she RFA? (I'll explain that in a moment.)

OK, here's how to do the checklist...

1 - Core Values
These are your personal ethics that never change. These values guide your daily actions. You have these whether you realize it or not. Some examples of core values are Loyalty, Fairness, and "Bro's before Ho's."

If her core values are different, then you two will find big differences that can't be overcome. For example, some people value Family much more than others. Some value God more than others. Some value BBQ chicken wings much more than others.

NOTE: Do not judge my core values just because they are more delicious than yours!

2 - Does she make you inner child feel safe and happy?

One example is if your inner child needs a girl who is not likely to leave and you choose a flight-risk, you will always be on-edge and unhappy.

EXAMPLE:
DUDE: Inner child, does this new girl make you feel safe?
INNER CHILD: I think she's very nice but I'm scared.
PEN!S: Shut up you stupid brat! Get the puuuuu$$y!
INNER CHILD: Aaaaaaah! Who is that?!
DUDE: Sorry inner child, I'll beat him later.

hahahah :)

3 - Sex
Sex is...

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Here are some more tips, but only Premium Members get the entire video + access to over 125 full dating and relationship videos in the Video Vault!

- There will ALWAYS be a hotter girl. If you look hard enough there will ALWAYS be something "better" somewhere else. That means you're not ready to commit. No girl is perfect. (With one exception... I love you Wonder Woman!)

- RFA = Really. F*cking. Annoying. NEVER date an RFA girl. I don't care how hot she is or how awesome she is in every other way. RFA girls will make your skin crawl and your blood boil and she'll embarrass you in social situations. Guys know when a girl is RFA within 10 minutes. But many of you women don't know if you are RFA.

Here is a self-test for you girls...

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Comment below! Have you ever questioned whether you should be with your partner? What made you stay?

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