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Dating Advice: My girlfriend was drooling over the lead singer at a concert. Am I being insecure about our relationship?

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E in California writes...

Hey Hog,

I went to a big Tim McGraw concert with my girlfriend. As we are standing in line to get drinks he walks within a couple feet of us. My girlfriend shouts out Hi to him and he looks directly at her and smiles.

I know this doesn't mean much but my girl is an NFL cheerleader (that you helped me to get, thanks Hog!) so she's really pretty and she really likes him.

She mentioned a few times yesterday, "He always wears those tight jeans and he may be older but his butt still looks amazing." And she also said "I feel stupid because I like blacked out when I saw him! I should have reached out to touch him or something!"

All of that didn't really bother me. When I took her home she said she loved me and "she didn't want to cuddle with anyone else even Tim McGraw, if he offered."

It made me feel good but then this morning I sent her a "good morning text" as usual and she didn't even say good morning back. Her response was "Tim McGraw and I had a moment last night huh? LOL!"

I responded with "I guess haha" The truth is it bothered me a lot. I feel really insecure about it. Should I? Or am I being stupid?

She also wrote on her Facebook, "The highlight of my night was Tim McGraw smiling at me!!"

It's like I wasn't even there or something! What should I do?

- E in California

You should do a cheer for your cheerleader girlfriend!

Who has to find someone else to date?
You do! You do! Yoooooooou are dumped!


I know the guys watching are like, "What! You can't have him break up with a certified ridiculously hot NFL cheerleader!!! He'll never get that kind of girl again! She's mega-hot and she can do splits! He can't turn down NFL Season Tickets to her box seat! aww! haha :)

Well, it's that kind of thinking that will keep you away from having a super awesome girlfriend.

If he's being an awesome guy, then she will miss HIM more than he will miss her.

Yes, hot girls can get a new boyfriend in 1.5 seconds but that's never the problem. The problem for them is getting a GREAT MAN.

Most of the guys they meet are Level 10 Douche Bags or Dorks or Boring Generic Dudes. Your job is to be AWESOME!

How many awesome potential boyfriends are out there?

Not many. So when she has one, if she's in the right frame of mind (in other words, not in slutty mode) she will want to keep him.


- a good, strong man with a kind heart
- their keys hiding in their huge handbag
- the courage to say to her girlfriend, "Your new hairstyle makes you look like an over hair-sprayed 1980s poodle."

Look, if this happened in reverse, your girlfriend would not be too happy. Imagine, she takes you to a concert with a hot chick singer. And you drool all over the singer and go on and on about her. This would make your girlfriend feel not so special. Like macaroni and cheese that's not even in the shape of dinosaurs or anything. It's macaroni in the shape of... macaroni!

Even if you did feel flattered that the hot female singer smiled at you, you would keep that thought to yourself and to private conversations with EVERY FRIEND WHO WILL LISTEN! hahah :) BUT... you would not tell your girlfriend because that would be rude. Rude, like urinating on the toilet seat and cleaning it with the evaporation method.

It's about respect.

Her behavior was disrespectful.

Now you have two ways to deal with her disrespecting you...

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- Don't bitch about it. Don't act insecure. You don't have to. You know who you are and what you have to offer.

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